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Talking to Yourself is a Good Thing

Self-talk is your internal dialogue. It’s influenced by your subconscious mind, and it reveals your thoughts, beliefs, questions, and ideas.

Self-talk can be both negative and positive. It can be encouraging, and it can be distressing. Much of your self-talk depends on your personality. If you’re an optimist, your self-talk may be more hopeful and positive. The opposite is generally true if you tend to be a pessimist.

Positive thinking and optimism can be effective stress management tools. Indeed, having a more positive outlook on life can provide you with some health benefits. For example, one 2010 study shows optimists have a better quality of life.

If you believe your self-talk is too negative, or if you want to emphasize positive self-talk, you can learn to shift that inner dialogue. It can help you be a more positive person, and it may improve your health.

Why is it good for you?

Self-talk can enhance your performance and general well-being. For example, research shows self-talk can help athletes with performance. It may help them with endurance or to power through a set of heavy weights.

Furthermore, positive self-talk and a more optimistic outlook can have other health benefits, including:

  • Increased vitality
  • Greater life satisfaction
  • Improved immune function
  • Reduced pain
  • Better cardiovascular health
  • Better physical well-being
  • Less stress and distress

It’s not clear why optimists and individuals with more positive self-talk experience these benefits. However, research suggests people with positive self-talk may have mental skills that allow them to solve problems, think differently, and be more efficient at coping with hardships or challenges. This can reduce the harmful effects of stress and anxiety.

How does it work?

Before you can learn to practice more self-talk, you must first identify negative thinking. This type of thinking and self-talk generally falls into four categories:

  • Personalizing: You blame yourself for everything.
  • Magnifying: You focus on the negative aspects of a situation, ignoring any and all of the positive.
  • Catastrophizing: You expect the worst, and you rarely let logic or reason persuade you otherwise.
  • Polarizing: You see the world in black and white, or good and bad. There’s nothing in between and no middle ground for processing and categorizing life events.

When you begin to recognize your types of negative thinking, you can work to turn them into positive thinking. This task requires practice and time and doesn’t develop overnight. The good news is that is can be done. A 2012 study shows even small children can learn to correct negative self-talk.

Examples of Positive and Negative Self-Talk

These scenarios are examples of when and how you can turn negative self-talk into positive self-talk. Again, it takes practice. Recognizing some of your own negative self-talk in these scenarios may help you develop skills to flip the thought when it occurs.

  • Negative: I’ll disappoint everyone if I change my mind.
  • Positive: I have the power to change my mind. Others will understand.
  • Negative: I failed and embarrassed myself.
  • Positive: I’m proud of myself for even trying. That took courage.
  • Negative: I’m overweight and out of shape. I might as well not bother.
  • Positive: I am capable and strong, and I want to get healthier for me.
  • Negative: I let everyone on my team down when I didn’t score.
  • Positive: Sports are a team event. We win and lose together.
  • Negative: I’ve never done this before and I’ll be bad at it.
  • Positive: This is a wonderful opportunity for me to learn from others and grow.
  • Negative: There’s just no way this will work.
  • Positive: I can and will give it my all to make it work.

How do I use this on a daily basis?

Positive self-talk takes practice if it’s not your natural instinct. If you’re generally more pessimistic, you can learn to shift your inner dialogue to be more encouraging and uplifting.

However, forming a new habit takes time and effort. Over time, your thoughts can shift. Positive self-talk can become your norm. These tips can help:

Identify negative self-talk traps

Certain scenarios may increase your self-doubt and lead to more negative self-talk. Work events, for example, may be particularly hard. Pinpointing when you experience the most negative self-talk can help you anticipate and prepare.

Check in with your feelings

Stop during events or bad days and evaluate your self-talk. Is it becoming negative? How can you turn it around?

Find the humor

Laughter can help relieve stress and tension. When you need a boost for positive self-talk, find ways to laugh, such as watching funny animal videos or a comedian.

Surround yourself with positive people

Whether or not you notice it, you can absorb the outlook and emotions of people around you. This includes negative and positive, so choose positive people when you can.

Give yourself positive affirmations

Sometimes, seeing positive words or inspiring images can be enough to redirect your thoughts. Post small reminders in your office, in your home, and anywhere you spend a significant amount of time.

When should I seek support?

Positive self-talk can help you improve your outlook on life. It can also have lasting positive health benefits, including improved well-being and a better quality of life. However, self-talk is a habit made over a lifetime.

If you tend to have negative self-talk and err on the side of pessimism, you can learn to change it. It takes time and practice, but you can develop uplifting positive self-talk.

If you find you’re not successful on your own, talk with a therapist. Mental health experts can help you pinpoint sources of negative self-talk and learn to flip the switch. Ask your health care provider for a referral to a therapist, or ask a friend or family member for a suggestion.

The above article is courtesy of My EZ Health Guide and is intended for informational purposes only.

  • Heather Davis
    Posted at 12:32h, 16 April Reply

    Great Article

    • Connie Cholensky
      Posted at 13:17h, 16 April Reply


  • Aaryn Crosby
    Posted at 12:33h, 16 April Reply


    Posted at 12:33h, 16 April Reply

    Well said!

  • Robin Thomas
    Posted at 12:36h, 16 April Reply

    I am always trying to see the positives.

    Posted at 12:37h, 16 April Reply

    I talk to myself all the time. LOL. Good to know its good for me!

  • Hind
    Posted at 12:41h, 16 April Reply


  • Tracy Donnalley
    Posted at 12:41h, 16 April Reply

    Very good information

  • Juanita Noce
    Posted at 12:41h, 16 April Reply


  • Mike Garner
    Posted at 12:42h, 16 April Reply

    I read it. ..

  • Mayra Echeverria
    Posted at 12:45h, 16 April Reply

    Ty good read

  • Randy Hines
    Posted at 12:46h, 16 April Reply

    I work by myself a lot so I talk a lot to myself. Try to be positive even when your day runs off road.

    Posted at 12:47h, 16 April Reply

    I always talk to myself glad it is a good thing!

  • Jean Farrell
    Posted at 12:48h, 16 April Reply

    Thanks, I now have a solid reason for talking to myself!

  • Peggy Herrlein
    Posted at 12:48h, 16 April Reply

    Liked the article

  • Lula M Scott
    Posted at 12:51h, 16 April Reply

    Now that’s something, that I really needed to read. I have been around people who only think negative about themselves and I always tell them stop it. I love me and when I fail at something I just try harder and don’t beat myself up about. Cause I know God got my back .

  • Jim Vogel
    Posted at 12:51h, 16 April Reply

    Great information. Confirms what I had previously learned through the reading of other similar articles. I speak to myself regularly offering encourage and positive reinforcement.

  • Amanda McCord
    Posted at 12:55h, 16 April Reply

    Good to know

  • Steven Mendoza
    Posted at 12:58h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you!

  • Angela Lloyd
    Posted at 13:02h, 16 April Reply


  • steve plum
    Posted at 13:08h, 16 April Reply

    very interesting

  • Taryn Jean Williams
    Posted at 13:18h, 16 April Reply

    Needed this today!

  • Connie Cholensky
    Posted at 13:18h, 16 April Reply

    Out loud or in our head? lol

  • Tammy Isom
    Posted at 13:18h, 16 April Reply

    Good information…. thanks

  • Michael Tod jones
    Posted at 13:36h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you. Very helpful!

  • Joanne Wilkerson
    Posted at 13:37h, 16 April Reply

    Keeps me positive and motivated

  • Kim Hetrick
    Posted at 13:44h, 16 April Reply

    Good article

  • Cheryl Grose
    Posted at 14:07h, 16 April Reply


  • Elizabeth Fogleman
    Posted at 14:10h, 16 April Reply

    I’ve learned over time that praying true words quietly under my breath steadies me and helps me through difficult situations, ie: God, you’re here with me, help me. You promised You will not forsake me. I need you. God, you are helping me because you love me. This builds my confidence.

  • Beth Smith
    Posted at 14:21h, 16 April Reply

    I work in long term care. I am as always talking to my self. I tell everyone I talk to myself so I can get the answers I want.
    I talk to myself to organize my next steps

  • Darby Rouzee
    Posted at 14:26h, 16 April Reply

    I find that I have more positive self talk when I exercise more, so it’s good for me physically and mentally!

    Posted at 14:26h, 16 April Reply

    Lol. I do this all the time especially when I have a presentation at school.

  • Donna Taliaferro
    Posted at 14:43h, 16 April Reply

    Good information

  • Brenda L Nicholson
    Posted at 14:44h, 16 April Reply

    Good information thank you

  • Hannah Pendergrass
    Posted at 14:48h, 16 April Reply

    good information thanks

  • Matt
    Posted at 14:50h, 16 April Reply

    Good article.

  • Alexander Broderick
    Posted at 14:56h, 16 April Reply

    Interesting. I might have test this 🙂

  • Desmond Williams
    Posted at 14:56h, 16 April Reply


  • John w
    Posted at 14:56h, 16 April Reply

    Best article yet

  • Dustin Walker
    Posted at 14:58h, 16 April Reply

    Yeah stuck in a truck for hours if you dont talk to yourself you might need to start

  • Kerrie Bates
    Posted at 14:58h, 16 April Reply

    Good info. Hope to use and be more positive!!

  • Kenneth Melton
    Posted at 14:58h, 16 April Reply

    Ok, thank you

  • Tiffany Holbrooks
    Posted at 14:59h, 16 April Reply

    Great article, it’s good to know information like this

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    Posted at 14:59h, 16 April Reply

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  • Tiffany Holbrooks
    Posted at 15:00h, 16 April Reply

    Great article, it’s good to know information like this. Thank you

  • katina Cooper
    Posted at 15:01h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you

  • Edward L Reiman
    Posted at 15:03h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you great info! I love talking to myself!

  • Josh
    Posted at 15:03h, 16 April Reply

    good info

  • Rickey Harris
    Posted at 15:05h, 16 April Reply

    Great, i am going to try this, thanks a lot

  • Joseph Christ
    Posted at 15:06h, 16 April Reply

    Great. Thanks

  • Selina Lloyd
    Posted at 15:17h, 16 April Reply

    Talking to yourself is a good thing

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    Posted at 15:22h, 16 April Reply

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  • Rev. Rick Carder
    Posted at 15:23h, 16 April Reply

    This article is really good. Self-talk is helpful and even posting positive sayings on your mirror can make a difference.

  • Amanda Logsdon
    Posted at 15:23h, 16 April Reply

    I often talk to myself glad to know this is a healty ways of relieving stress.

  • Freda Hunt
    Posted at 15:31h, 16 April Reply

    I talk to myself all the time. I bet people think, I’m crazy or something. I always say positive things.

  • Harold Little
    Posted at 15:37h, 16 April Reply

    Great article! I’ve been seeing articles and other media projects on this subject lately!

  • George Ray Carlton
    Posted at 15:38h, 16 April Reply

    Thanks for very insightful article

  • Kalor Riley
    Posted at 15:40h, 16 April Reply

    Good to know. Very informative

  • Kathy
    Posted at 15:41h, 16 April Reply

    Thanks for the article. Sending positive thoughts! 🙂

  • Mike Garcia
    Posted at 15:50h, 16 April Reply

    Great article, thank you

  • Amy Bates
    Posted at 15:51h, 16 April Reply


  • lula green
    Posted at 15:51h, 16 April Reply

    Good article I talk to myself all the time to work through situations. When you speak out loud it makes it a little more real and you can work through it. Positive thinking is going for all.

  • Tiffany Cell
    Posted at 15:51h, 16 April Reply

    Great article! This really resonates with me, as someone who tends to have too much negative self talk in general. I am working to change that habit, and the suggestions in this article will help.

  • Sanra Cook
    Posted at 15:58h, 16 April Reply


  • Jolene Zaye
    Posted at 15:58h, 16 April Reply

    Good to Know. I do at times self-talk to myself but people see me and they think I am crazy. Now that I have this good source of information I will continue self-talk positive.

  • N Sharperson
    Posted at 15:59h, 16 April Reply

    Really good article

  • michelle thompson
    Posted at 16:06h, 16 April Reply

    love this article

  • Candice Thomas
    Posted at 16:09h, 16 April Reply

    Great article, thanks for sharing!

  • Linda
    Posted at 16:10h, 16 April Reply

    I pray the scripture s out loud song the Psalms memorize the Pro.ises of God in the Bible is is totally transforming and will change lives..mine is forsure. Roman’s 15:13
    May the God of hope fill you with all peace and joy so you will be filled with hope by the power of Holy Spirit .

  • Scott Wygant
    Posted at 16:21h, 16 April Reply

    Good article and good positive talk is always motivating.

  • Shelby York
    Posted at 16:36h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you

  • Howie Thompson
    Posted at 16:57h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you

  • Scott
    Posted at 16:57h, 16 April Reply

    least I know I am not crazy now

  • Donna taliaferro
    Posted at 17:01h, 16 April Reply

    Good to know

  • Deb Gowen
    Posted at 17:04h, 16 April Reply

    Thanks, good reminder

  • Lyndsay Myers
    Posted at 17:27h, 16 April Reply

    Thank you

  • Randy Thomas
    Posted at 17:27h, 16 April Reply

    These article always have the best advice. Thanks.

  • Serena Phillips
    Posted at 17:31h, 16 April Reply

    Wonderful. Good Info

  • Leila Cordingley
    Posted at 17:35h, 16 April Reply

    Thanks for the information, good to know.

  • K Pitts
    Posted at 17:46h, 16 April Reply

    Good article and so me. I talk to myself often. I’ve always tried to look at things in a positive way, but it always comes back and slaps me in the face. So if I don’t think it’s a good thing then I don’t do it regardless what others say. I do admit and my husband always tells me, that I’m a negative person which I am. No matter how hard I try nothing ever goes right.

  • Rachelle Gizinski
    Posted at 18:00h, 16 April Reply

    I have been talking to myself for years. Glad to know I am not crazy.

  • Luc Cleyman
    Posted at 18:27h, 16 April Reply

    This is great. I love talking to myself and it definitely increases my mood.

  • Nestor Konditamde
    Posted at 18:47h, 16 April Reply

    Got it, thx

  • Brandi Horvat
    Posted at 18:52h, 16 April Reply


  • Timothy Gissiner
    Posted at 19:00h, 16 April Reply

    Hi. Wow. I noticed this with a lot of women at the workplace. Why is that??

  • Charles Higgins
    Posted at 19:02h, 16 April Reply

    That was really helpful I can put that to good use

  • Anthony Hudson
    Posted at 19:25h, 16 April Reply

    I always talk to myself daily. It keeps me motivated and positive about myself.

  • Tracey Riggle
    Posted at 19:39h, 16 April Reply

    Good info

  • Tyler Eller
    Posted at 20:51h, 16 April Reply

    Awesome tips, thank you!

  • Tyler Eller
    Posted at 20:52h, 16 April Reply

    Awesome tips, thank you for the info

  • Gary Burke
    Posted at 20:53h, 16 April Reply

    See i am not nuts i always talk to myself

  • Laurie Christensen
    Posted at 21:07h, 16 April Reply

    Good read,

  • Jonathan Upholz
    Posted at 21:55h, 16 April Reply

    Good to know

  • Michelle Grant
    Posted at 22:21h, 16 April Reply

    I needed this reminder thanks

  • Matt Beyer
    Posted at 22:29h, 16 April Reply

    Great article thanks for the extra info

  • David Murray
    Posted at 01:05h, 17 April Reply

    Sometimes it allows us to fellowship with God. Thanks good article.

  • Tammy White
    Posted at 01:07h, 17 April Reply

    Very interesting.

  • Annette Skoeries
    Posted at 01:36h, 17 April Reply

    Good read

  • Ronald E Scholz
    Posted at 10:52h, 17 April Reply


  • Vicki Koch
    Posted at 11:36h, 17 April Reply

    Good information!

  • Dawn Hobson
    Posted at 14:26h, 17 April Reply

    Very good article.. I use this idea of positive self- talk with the kids I work with.

  • Laurie Lierman
    Posted at 14:49h, 17 April Reply

    Thanks for the reminder.

  • Yvonne Lees
    Posted at 17:27h, 17 April Reply

    Good information.

  • terry king
    Posted at 19:57h, 17 April Reply

    Good info

  • Karen Ellyson
    Posted at 21:08h, 17 April Reply


  • Brian Bailey
    Posted at 00:00h, 18 April Reply

    I totally agree! Positive self talk has such great advantages. Ive gotten better with this except for when I’m angry about something f really need to not focus on what’s made me angry.

  • Wade Lannon Allen
    Posted at 00:06h, 18 April Reply

    Great read

  • David Morris
    Posted at 00:50h, 18 April Reply

    Positive thinking will help motivate you.

  • Shellyanne Rushdan
    Posted at 00:55h, 18 April Reply

    Thank you!

  • Shellyanne Rushdan
    Posted at 01:00h, 18 April Reply

    Good information, thank you

  • Lisa D. Dover
    Posted at 02:23h, 18 April Reply

    Very good and positive information.

  • Lisa Dover
    Posted at 02:27h, 18 April Reply

    Through the Lord God, “all things” are possible. Can’t get more positive than that!!

  • Kris Mendez
    Posted at 04:34h, 18 April Reply

    Thank you for the information

  • Gary Burke
    Posted at 07:59h, 18 April Reply


  • Shannon H
    Posted at 13:57h, 18 April Reply

    I like to help myself make plans, and it helps me keep positive outlook.

  • Brandy Chandler
    Posted at 16:11h, 18 April Reply

    I need to do a better job about talking positively to myself.

  • Ramiro Samayoa
    Posted at 16:13h, 18 April Reply

    Very interesting, thanks.

  • Tabitha K tewalt
    Posted at 16:40h, 18 April Reply

    Talking to yourself in a positive manner is a good thing. Negative manner will bring you down

  • Irene Durr
    Posted at 19:11h, 18 April Reply

    Good Reading

  • Mikalea N Bunyan
    Posted at 01:59h, 19 April Reply

    The power or positive thinking is real! It will change your life!

  • Grahamn Guiao
    Posted at 04:57h, 19 April Reply

    Very interesting. Good read!

  • Nicklas Armor
    Posted at 11:26h, 19 April Reply

    Interesting view…

  • devona maher
    Posted at 16:01h, 20 April Reply

    Good article

  • Karla Landoll
    Posted at 16:05h, 20 April Reply

    Great job information, thanks

  • Porsha Elle Sade Ali
    Posted at 19:35h, 20 April Reply

    Good info

  • carmen roe
    Posted at 01:08h, 21 April Reply

    I talk to myself all the time and find it to be a good thing

    Posted at 15:40h, 21 April Reply

    Talking to yourself is good for you i do it all the time

  • Ronald Eugene Scholz
    Posted at 21:00h, 21 April Reply

    Good article

  • Kevin K
    Posted at 13:49h, 22 April Reply

    Great Article…..!!

  • Marissa Chiasson
    Posted at 19:56h, 22 April Reply

    Yay! I’m already doing this!

  • Barbara Lynn Lambert
    Posted at 20:01h, 22 April Reply

    Glad to know that talking to myself is a good thing, I do it all the time. Lol
    But yes, good to know that it is believed to be beneficial as well.

  • Kathryn OHar
    Posted at 20:09h, 22 April Reply

    Positive thinking is an asset, not always easy to do, but being aware and trying to turn negative thoughts and ideas into positive is a good strategy.

  • Mitch Davis
    Posted at 21:01h, 22 April Reply

    Self perception and self doubt go together. This is a fantastic article.

  • Shura Iskhakova
    Posted at 00:38h, 23 April Reply

    Good to know. Very good article.

  • Shura Iskhakova
    Posted at 00:38h, 23 April Reply

    Very good article. Thanku

  • Shura Iskhakova
    Posted at 00:40h, 23 April Reply

    Wow good to know. Very good article.

  • Brad Martin
    Posted at 10:15h, 23 April Reply

    I find myself doing this often. Interesting article with some good suggestions.

  • Andria Airhart
    Posted at 15:42h, 23 April Reply

    I am too negative. Need to get better!

  • James Hoit
    Posted at 16:12h, 23 April Reply

    I talk to myself constantly. Now that I know it’s good for me, I will probably increase it.

  • Ethel Searles
    Posted at 16:31h, 24 April Reply

    Excellent article. Good linformation

  • Tracy Hedl
    Posted at 09:10h, 25 April Reply


  • Karen Brewer
    Posted at 00:40h, 26 April Reply

    Great advice- we can be our biggest critic and overlook the positive. Now to put this advice to work!

  • Kristin Meschke
    Posted at 02:36h, 26 April Reply


    Posted at 19:51h, 26 April Reply

    Great read!

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    Posted at 16:54h, 02 May Reply

    I got my 560$ worth with this info.

  • Clayton E Johnson
    Posted at 21:01h, 02 May Reply

    Good info

  • Rose Davis
    Posted at 21:02h, 02 May Reply

    Very Good Info

  • Jeff Chadwick
    Posted at 23:03h, 07 May Reply

    Thanks for the info

  • Roger Moore
    Posted at 04:33h, 09 May Reply

    Thank you

  • Kristin Meschke
    Posted at 02:33h, 10 May Reply

    Such great info

  • Marla Cantway
    Posted at 16:10h, 11 May Reply

    Great info

  • Rudyard Sylveria Baker
    Posted at 06:51h, 12 May Reply


  • Betty Busey
    Posted at 22:22h, 04 June Reply

    I always try to look on the bright side of everything. I think I’m a positive thinker!

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